How to be diplomatic? No hate No care; Just move along with no attachments or hatred.

If you want the honey, don't kick the beehive. 

I have always wondered how some people be so good to everyone they meet. Don't they really hate anyone in the world? Wait! it's impossible right? For a human to be without emotions like love and hatred. 

Personally, I can't fake my emotions to other people. But people around me, they all do it like it's their piece of cake. I sometimes believe that this person is really sweet to me until I hear them talk shit behind my back. Lol How naive right! But seriously it was just too difficult to conclude the intention they had.

As time passed, I started to observe people and learnt a lot. Very few people out there are actually innocent as they picture them as. I repeat it's very few. 

So, I'm gonna tell you some of the learnings so that you all can start handling people better. Rules, I need you to follow:

1. Never trust the face people show to you when you meet them first. I mean many people out there know this, but honestly, I didn't know. I learnt it so late haha. Anyways, it's better later than never.
2. And it's also not necessary for you to show your authentic self to everyone you meet until you know their true intentions.
3. Don't react to people's triggering. You know, some people trigger you well to get that reaction you are about to give. It's difficult, but we must learn to ignore them for our own wellbeing. These things happen a lot in workplaces. Situations running through your mind? Ah nvm, we are all here to learn.
4. Attachment thing is the worst part. Do you guys easily believe the people who is too friendly to you? like at some point you start to think that they really care for you. No! they don't. Just start observing them, you will get to know that they are the same to each and every one they meet. It's like just they are being nice to people, and there is no real care kind of thing here. I mean they do care and be present at the moment, after a minute they don't even remember your face. 
   
   These people I mentioned above, they can easily make people like them even if they themselves don't like someone. See, how helpful to have people like you when you actually don't like them back. These people get favors from them, but they don't actually like them back. It's so interesting from this person's point of view. But what about the other person, don't fall victim of these acts of such people. If you learn to handle them, you can easily avoid from doing those favours and can easily identify what the person's real intentions are, whoever may it be.

This is very basic things I wanna let you people know. It's more like you need to follow than just knowing. There's a big difference between these two. I can just read this and still behave in the same old way you were before. Of course, it's gonna take some time and effort. 

There is this guy I know, who is so much diplomatic that you need five minutes to understand that the person is actually yelling at you. Interesting right? That's the power of communication or you may think the other person is dumb, lol. No, this can actually happen with good communication skills.

I really feel the need to learn that fucking skill - DIPLOMACY!! Let's see how it goes. People are scary, we gotta deal with them anyways. Let's get to know to handle them slowly.. After all, it's just a skill. It can be learnt.

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