How to not care about people who don't care about you?


 

Peace comes when you realize everything that's out of your control should be out of your mind too!

Have you ever been in situations where you wanted someone's attention/love so badly, but they always liked someone else more than you? I even feel irritated to the max when I only write about it. I don't know about you guys, but I have been there in such situations more often. It's like I'm in right now and I'll always be in one such situation is I didn't follow the above said quote.

We cannot control whom the person likes. It's totally in their control and it has nothing to do with you. I face this all time in my home. My mother likes my sister more than me. She always does and always will do maybe. What's my part in this? Can I go and tell her to show me the same love you show to sister? No right. It's completely her wish to choose whom to show her love. We can't demand it or expect it. If you do, you will be a fool here. 

This thing not only happens in home but everywhere in your life. But when you choose to not notice it or give your attention/energy to it, you will be peaceful and happy. Instead, start giving your energy to something that is in your control.

Instead of trying to control other people's action, try to shift your focus on the reactions you gonna give to these situations. Think how positively you can react. You can't control people's actions, but you can always control you can react to it. By doing this, you will automatically win other people's heart from whom you want love/attention. 

Don't care about what the people's thoughts are. Other people's thoughts won't define your worth.

What you should care about is your own actions and personal growth. If you choose to sit and worry about people actions, which you have no control over. It's your loss! and not theirs. Be wise and choose to react wise.


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